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Kelly's Korner she is doing How you met your husband. Well, Rick and I met on Eharmony! Thats right, we met online. After being a single mother for 3 years and working as an Oil/Gas Attorney in Fort Worth, Texas, there wasn't much time for dating. My family lived three hours away and I rarely had a chance for a sitter for my daughter. I worked with mostly women and married men, so my chances of meeting someone were few and far between. My friends suggested trying online dating and I decided to try Eharmony since they match you with someone based on a VERY lengthy personality profile you have to fill out. I thought I would give it a one month try to see what I thought. 3 days before the end of my month, I was emailed by Rick. I almost completely blew him off since his pictures made him appear to be a "party"boy and I was far from that type of girl. Also, I must admit I liked tall men and Rick was the opposite. Actually, he was shorter than me and I found that somewhat of a challenge. Finally, he was an officer in the Military and I was NEVER going to marry someone in the military. I guess God had other plans for me.
After emailing me several times, I responded and we eventually talked on the telephone. I was unable to procure a babysitter for my 3 yr old for our first "date", so we made it a casual dinner and ice cream in downtown Fort Worth. I thought our date was successful, but I didn't hear from him for 10 days!
We had our second date two weeks after our first and from there on out we took dating casually and enjoyed a summer of fun in the sun and casual dates. At the end of October only 6 months from meeting, Rick moved to South Carolina and I was left wondering what was going to happen. I flew to South Carolina in December and it was there he proposed to me on the beaches of Charleston.
We married TWO WEEKS after our proposal, which was 8 months after we met!!! I quit my job as an attorney, packed up me and my daughter and we moved to South Carolina for 5 months. A year ago we moved to South Korea where we are for the next couple of years.
It has only been 2 YEARS since we met and a lot has changed. We married, moved twice and just recently added a new baby into the mix!! It has been a whirlwind but worth every minute!
1 year ago
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Our family two years after we first met! We now have 2 daughters!!